Category Archives: EVENTS: clubs and parties in fetishland……………

For Books’ Sake

The glorious Suraya Sidhu Singh, editor of Filament Magazine, will be running a women’s erotica workshop at the Ladyfest literary festival on 13th November. Here’s a snippet from her interview at the “For Books’ Sake” website:

“…Zak Jane Keir and I are hoping to answer the question, ‘Why can’t I go to a news agent and buy a porn mag for women?’ We’ll be debunking myths by drawing on academic research about women and using our experiences of the publishing industry to demonstrate how things really work, and handing around fascinating examples of women’s erotica stretching back to the early 1970s…

…Women are simply not taken seriously by the magazine publishing and distribution industry. The virgin/whore dichotomy is alive and well, and there seems to be a real belief that all women are the same. I would not have believed that the world were still so old-fashioned had I not experienced it at first hand…”

Full interview here.

Consent

Here’s part of an encouraging article by Sarah Estrella for Examiner.com:

‘Where does consent begin and end in the eyes of the law when it comes to rough sex involving dominance and submission play?

Should adults engaging in consensual sexual behavior be subject to criminal laws including assault and battery? What local, state, or federal laws could be used against you for engaging in consensual BDSM activity? What does consent mean, who can give it, and what are its limits? How do we distinguish between consensual BDSM and domestic violence or abuse when such matters come before our law enforcement officials and enter into the court system? What are the boundaries of consent and sexual freedom?

This week on Tuesday October 19 the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom brings its Consent Counts project to San Francisco for a presentation on BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadism, masochism) and the law featuring presentations by NCSF’s Judy Guerin and Richard Cunningham, Esq. The discussion on decriminalizing BDSM will be held at 7pm at the Law Offices of Alex Austin & Shannan Rapoport, 799 Castro Street. Please RSVP to Judy Guerin at judy@ncsfreedom.org or 202-494-9555.

Through the Consent Counts project, the NCSF aims to decriminalize consensual BDSM behavior by creating “legal language that clarifies consensual BDSM is not the intent or purpose of laws such as battery if the behavior is between consenting adults.”

Via NCSF.wordpress.com:

The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom is a national organization committed to creating a political, legal, and social environment in the United States that advances equal rights of consenting adults who practice forms of alternative sexual expression. NCSF is primarily focused on the rights of consenting adults in the SM-leather-fetish, swing, and polyamory communities, who often face discrimination because of their sexual expression.

The Consent Counts project began in 2007 at the National Gay & Lesbian Task Force’s Creating Change conference, and was announced as a major project of the NCSF in August 2009…’

Full article here.

Leather Lovers

Canada’s National Post has written a rather lovely profile of Northbound Leather, their upcoming fashion show and fetish party in Toronto, and how kink has infiltrated mainstream culture and clothing. Here’s a sizeable chunk:

‘…I wind up a spiral staircase carpeted in leopard-print and eventually emerge on the third and topmost floor, the factory and design studio, with its stop-start whir of sewing machines and perfume of leather, PVC and something like glue in the air.

It’s here where I find Marty Rotman, Northbound Leather’s head designer and creative director, hunched over his drafting table. He’s just finished pressing a grid of dots into strips of black neoprene and is now chalking diagonal cross-hatching on the fabric with a ruler, a pattern to ensure the diamond-quilted stitching will be symmetrical. These strips are the padding under what will become quilted silver metallic leather police breeches, a custom job for a long-time leather-loving Northbound client. “This is why we have the reputation that we do,” he mutters.“I’m a bit anal.”

I keep the pun on the tip of my tongue to myself.

Northbound is how the family leath­er company has been known since 1987, transitioning from fringed Yorkville hippiedom into the shiny fetish destination it is today after a rebrand by second-generation owner George Giaouris. There’s a mood-lit brick-and-mortar store headquarters on Yonge and a bustling and — don’t say I didn’t warn you — totally NSFW shop online.

Everything down on the shop floor starts up here with Rotman — from initial ideas, sketches, patterns and technicals to the finished product, like the custom breeches he’s working on, and rolling racks bulging with the 54 fashion show looks he’s already finished. Both will be seen at Vanilla?, this year’s name for Northbound’s annual fetish party and fashion show. “This is our Christmas!” Rotman exclaims.

While Rotman personally designed all of the show looks, this time he stepped aside as the producer of the annual event; professional dominatrix Carolyn Kelly will be in charge.

This year’s Vanilla? theme (“a lot lighter than in past years,” Rotman explains) is designed to showcase Northbound’s more accessible, affordable garments and accessories. The kinder, gentler side of kink and fetish? The mainstream fashion version, certainly, and less intimidatingly hardcore. Thanks to the mainstreaming of the fetish fashion aesthetic — like Rotman’s favourite designer Thierry Mugler’s revival by Beyoncé, Kylie and Rihanna — the look is, “not just for the dungeon or the bedroom,” he says. The theme is strategic, to attract a new and younger customer base, because Northbound’s greatest strength may also be its weakness: “All our leather gear is made well enough that [customers] aren’t coming back all the time,” Rotman ruefully observes…’

Full article by Nathalie Atkinson here, and more details of next weekend’s “Northbound Live” event here if you happen to be in or near Toronto.