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Wrestling With Girls

From Ms Magazine:

‘“Really? Girls wrestling with boys? Has feminism really lost its mind?” So goes the question from Catholic blogger Defend Us in Battle, writing about Joel Northrup’s decision to withdraw from the Iowa state wrestling tournament rather than compete with female opponent Cassy Herkelman…’

Yup, it seems that a lot of chaps on the internet have got themselves in a tizzy about the idea of mixed wrestling and, in particular, a recent competition in which a young man forfeited his match against a (highly competent) young woman for “religious reasons” (and not at all because he was scared of being beaten by a female, of course).

“As a matter of conscience and faith,” said the youth, “I do not believe that it is appropriate for a boy to engage a girl in this manner.”

His decision was applauded by crazed misogynists across the internet. One of the most ridiculous commentaries came from a site called True Manhood which, at a first glance, seems to be a blog for muscle-bear fetishists but is actually an archive of religious rants from two big, butch muscular, manly, macho men talking about masculinity. When not talking about their own maleness, they seem fixated on damning homosexuals, pornographers and abortionists. Oh, and feminists, lest we forget. These are two chaps who certainly don’t want to wrestle with women:

‘I’d say that it goes back to our creation as men. It speaks to the heart of a man. Deep inside every man is a sense of wildness, a rugged “warrior” drive and our natural inclination towards adventure. There’s nothing natural inside a man that says “I should my brute strength to pin a woman to the floor to win a tournament.” In the history of wrestling, dating back to the ancient Greeks, men and women never wrestled one another. In fact, women never wrestled at all. Females wrestling is a pretty new invention.’

Actually, women have always wrestled, against both male and female opponentsthe girls of Ancient Sparta were famous for it. Then again, the True Men who run the site also think that Hugh Hefner invented pornography, so historical accuracy isn’t exactly their strong point.

Anyway, here’s the Ms Magazine article with its own links and commentary. If you want to learn more about women’s wrestling in a sporting context, you might enjoy a look at Women Wrestling. (p.s. If, like me, you’re also a shallow pervert and like women’s wrestling in a very, very, very sexual context, you might enjoy a look at Ultimate Surrender.)

Jesus Wept

In honour of International Women’s Day, here’s the “Women’s Page” from what appears to be the worst website in the world: “Jesus-Is-Savior.com”.

Whatever your religious leanings, I think even Christ himself would throw his laptop across the room in a sweary, beardy rage after a few minutes of reading. (Having been namechecked by countless sociopaths for a couple of millennia, you’d think he’d be used to this sort of thing, but the site is just so many kinds of horrible.) I perused it for hours last night, clicking each link in aghast fascination. Every time I think I’ve found the most abhorrent article, another one pops out that’s even worse.

Read it and weep.

Jilling Off

Much like Cake and Cunnilingus, there’s now an annual event dedicated to girl-friendly smut: “Lady Porn Day”. It was the day before yesterday. Yes, I’m a lazy blogger.

In the many debates surrounding pornography, few people ever mention that women often enjoy perusing it too. Sometimes the content is different to that spunked over by the chaps, but it is wrong to assume that erotica is always the harmful product of a misogynistic, exploitative industry geared towards men. I’m all for fairtrade porn made by, and for, consenting adults who enjoy sex, fetish or BDSM.

Jacqui Smith, the former Home Secretary, is presenting a documentary on 5 Live about porn. She is said to have been “shocked” at the ease of its availability online, and “felt completely innocent” on a visit to last year’s Erotica exhibition. Yet the Guardian’s Kristina Lloyd said in response that “a great deal of lazy thinking, myth making, poor research and anecdotal evidence surrounds debates on the sex industry.”

I’m inclined to agree with Kristina. The sweeping generalisations, misinterpretations and outright lies used by those who publicly condemn all pornography only stifle intelligent debate about creating a safer, fairer and healthier industry. There’s a danger that well-meaning feminist campaigns to eliminate anything perceived as sexual objectification will censor the female body, unwittingly presenting female sexuality itself as something obscene. There are many things I find offensive about The Sun’s Page 3, but bare norks are the least of them.

Still, here’s a marvellous list of links to ladies’ wank-fodder called the “Jilling Off Hall of Fame” at Rabbit Write, compiled in honour of Lady Porn Day. Happy fapping.