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Bondage for Freedom

Upmarket erotic emporium “Coco de Mer” was founded by Sam Roddick, whose interview appeared in the Observer this weekend. The shop sells expensive but achingly beautiful items of lingerie and bondage equipment (so, if anyone fancies buying me a present… hintity hint…?) As the daughter of the late Anita Roddick, Body Shop proprietor and pioneer of ethical consumerism – and Gordon Roddick who co-founded the Big Issue – Sam is continuing her parents’ legacy of human-rights activism. The sale of classy kink-fodder is combined with campaigns for sexual education and health for the young, gender equality, an end to sex-trafficking and, working alongside Oxfam, Roddick is fighting the epidemic of sexual violence in war-ravaged Congo. She is also an advocate of sex-positive Feminism – a kind of Feminism that “comes with a pair of really lacy knickers”. If you can afford it, this is kink for a good cause.

Here is part of the description of one particular product from the website:

“Bondage for Freedom is the Activist arm of Coco de Mer.

This set is comprised of a silk satin blindfold with the words “the only real freedom is freedom from fear” and a silk satin wrist restraint inside a cotton drawstring bag. All profit goes to charity.

Bondage for Freedom is a collective of cutting edge creative thinkers whose goal is to provide a FREE creative service for organizations that are fighting for human or environmental rights.

This ever-growing community of geniuses and outlaws are creating irresistible and inspiring films, music and live interactive events and exhibitions. Their goal is to instigate and encourage a tidal wave of sexy, hilarious and hard-hitting masterpieces to raise awareness, effect change and manifest shit-loads of money for non-profit organizations and causes.”

See more here.

Cave Cock is Phallic Firestarter

New research has found that the world’s oldest sex toy could also light fires. The broken siltstone phallus was reassembled in 2005 after being found in Hohle Fels Cave near Ulm, Germany, and is estimated to be around 28,000 years old. It has been studied by the University of Tubingen who say that the 20cm dildo doubled as a tool for ignition. There are marks and indentations on the object that show it was regularly struck against flints to create sparks, whereas the carved rings around its polished end are thought to have been put there for reasons of pleasure rather than practicality. Prehistoric people could certainly multi-task…

Learn about other finds at Hohle Fels here.

Psychologists on Porn

Thanks to Clair Lewis of CAAN for alerting me to this:

From Psychology Today:

“PORNOGRAPHY – BENEFICIAL OR DETRIMENTAL?

It turns out that pornography is good for you.

For the past several decades, a debate has raged as to whether or not pornography yields deleterious effects at the individual and/or societal levels (e.g., increased negative views toward women; increased rate of sexual crimes against women). In many instances, those who have sought to link pornography to countless ills have been ideologically motivated, as the aggregate scientific evidence hardly supports such conclusions. See chapter 6 of my book The Evolutionary Bases of Consumption (p. 228-235) for some relevant references on pornography.

In today’s post, I’d like to briefly report on two recent studies that shed light on the matter. In a paper published in 2009 in the International Journal of Law and Psychiatry, Milton Diamond reviewed a very broad number of studies that have explored the supposed ill effects of pornography. Subsequent to his extensive review, Diamond concludes (p. 312):

“Indeed, the data reported and reviewed suggests that the thesis is myth and, if anything, there is an inverse causal relationship between an increase in pornography and sex crimes. Further, considering the findings of studies of community standards and wide spread usage of SEM [sexually explicit material], it is obvious that in local communities as nationally and internationally, porn is available, widely used and felt appropriate for voluntary adult consumption. If there is a consensus against pornography it is in regard to any SEM that involves children or minors in its production or consumption. Lastly we see that objections to erotic materials are often made on the basis of supposed actual, social or moral harm to women. No such cause and effect has been demonstrated with any negative consequence.”

This is yet another review of the literature that seems to find no societal ill effects of pornography. What about at the individual level? Are women who view pornography terrorized beyond redemption? Do they descend into a well of despair and self-doubt about their sexuality? Do men become misogynist monsters upon viewing pornographic material? Do they develop debilitating penis insecurities at the sight of well-endowed male porn actors? Let’s see what Gert Martin Hald and Neil M. Malamuth found in their 2008 paper titled Self-Perceived Effects of Pornographic Consumption. I should mention that Neil Malamuth is a highly regarded scholar of pornography who has often argued for its supposed ill effects. Hence, if there exists a possibility of an a priori bias here, it would be in hoping to find that pornography yields negative consequences.

In their survey of 688 young Danish adults (men = 316; women = 372), Hald and Malamuth found that respondents construed the viewing of hardcore pornography as beneficial to their sex lives, their attitudes towards sex, their perceptions and attitudes towards members of the opposite sex, toward life in general, and over all. The obtained beneficial effects were statistically significant for all but one measure across both sexes. Now here is the kicker: A positive correlation was obtained between the amount of hardcore pornography that was viewed and the impact of the benefits reaped. This positive correlation was found for both sexes. In other words, the more that one watched porn, the stronger the benefits (for both sexes)! There you have it.

This post should not be construed as my being in favour of pornography, as my personal opinion is irrelevant to the matter at hand. Rather I am reporting on recent data regarding this debate and in so doing I wish to highlight the fact that ideology should never trump scientific evidence.”

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