Here’s an excerpt from a brilliant “Sexual Manifesto” article by Christine Borden for online magazine “SF Appeal”:

“…I am sure plenty of people enjoy the type of femdom porn Kink(.com) produces. It’s hot to see a beautiful woman dominate and otherwise torture a pathetic, grovelling man-boy. But for some femdom worshippers, it’s even hotter to see beautiful women dominate and otherwise torture men who look like they can hold their own in a 5-on-1 street knife fight. You know how they say “the bigger they are the harder they fall?” I don’t know about you, but there is something visually stunning in watching a man who looks like he could throw a woman over his shoulders instead fall to his knees and submit so thoroughly and obediently to his Mistress. Oh, and there is nothing small about his penis to humiliate.

Femdom (and D/s porn in general) is so varied that it’s hard to find a consistent stream of what meets your arousal standards. I like Kink.com because of its production quality and its honourable reputation, but just like in mainstream vanilla porn, if I want the male bodies I want, I have to turn to gay porn. Which works sorta, except when you remember that this is femdom we’re talking about. You know, with the whole woman-in-charge thing? Oh yeah, that.

I understand that a lot if not most porn is made with a male audience in mind, either consciously or subconsciously. But this seems like the kind of porn more women could enjoy, even if you don’t consider yourself kinky. Push him on the bed for once! Smack ‘im around and don’t let him cum until you’re sufficiently satisfied with his cunnilingus skills. Girlfriends, sisters, womyn, vagina warriors, amirite? (Eh? Just me?)…”

For the whole article, click here.