Category Archives: BLOGGERY: articles of interest from elsewhere………

More Bad Breath

Oh dear. Another case of breath-play going awry. Twice. You’d think he’d have been a bit more careful with his subs after the first time, but no.

From Pinknews.co.uk:

“An Australian gay man has pleaded guilty to the murder of a lover halfway through his trial. David Richard Fraser, of Adelaide, admits strangling 28-year-old Luke Noonan during a sex act involving erotic asphyxia in September 2009.

Fraser, 36, initially denied murdering Mr Noonan but changed his plea today, The Age reports. The South Australian Supreme Court heard that he had wrapped a belt around Mr Noonan’s neck during sex. At the time of the younger man’s death, Fraser was on parole following a conviction for the manslaughter of another man during a sex game. In 2005, he killed Shaine Moore during a consensual sex act. Fraser had tied a shoelace around Mr Moore’s neck.

Pleading guilty to manslaughter, he claimed that Mr Moore unexpectedly lost consciousness and died. The Supreme Court was told about the 2005 case after prosecutors argued that it showed Fraser was aware of the risks of erotic asphyxiation. The jury was dismissed today after Fraser’s guilty plea. He will return to court next month.”

Original article here.

Do try to play safely, ladies and gents. Oxygen isn’t just for Tops.

Turning the Worm

Here’s an article I wrote last summer debating exactly who wears the trousers in “forced” feminisation. At the time, it was published in “Desire Presents: BDSM”. I scanned and saved it* but somehow forgot to post it here. Click on each thumbnail below to open a bigger version in a new window.

       

*rather badly, I’m afraid. A lot of the words are blotchy and almost unreadable. I blame technology.

(Later edit) Also I know that gender is complicated and I don’t mean to conflate TV, TS and fetish identities here. Everyone’s experience is unique and those who have a kink for forced fem can’t be generalised. Apologies if I didn’t clarify that enough in this piece.

Princess Punch

It’s always reassuring to find strong female characters in any fictional medium. All too often, we’re merely portrayed as the passive window-dressing for a male character’s storyline. Just this week, the wonderful Hermione Norris commented on this in an interview for the Graun:

“…There is a lack of true representations of women. I was once on the judging panel for a TV award; all the dramas we assessed that starred men were great big stories, while those that starred women were small-scale domestic dramas. But any of the big stories could have been told from a female perspective…”

In 2007, Warner Bros decreed that they were no longer going to produce movies with a woman as the lead character. Two recent pictures (respectively starring Jodie Foster and Nicole Kidman) had brought poor box-office revenues and President of Production, Jeff Robinov, decided that this must be the fault of the female protagonists. Women everywhere were understandably pissed off. Gloria Allred, noted women’s rights attorney said: “…when movies with men as the lead fail, no one says we’ll stop making movies with men in the lead.”

However, in 2009, Steve Shibuya, along with Zack and Deborah Snyder, began work on Suckerpunch, due to be released by Warner Bros in UK cinemas on April 1st. Two years earlier, Zack Snyder had directed “300”, arguably the most masculine film ever made. Directly contradicting the studio’s stance, he decided that Suckerpunch would be very different: “I already did the all-male cast with 300,” said Snyder, “so I’m doing the opposite end of the spectrum.”

All the main characters in Suckerpunch are women. I haven’t yet seen it myself, but the trailer is certainly intriguing.

What intrigued me even more, however, was the “Disney Punch Mash-Up Trailer” on YouTube. As a child, I was never keen on Disney Princesses. Their innate helplessness and lack of individual personality grated on me and none seemed able to survive without submitting to a handsome stranger on a horse and being led away to be his wife. Each Princess’ story would end when she married. We never got to see what happened after that. It wasn’t thought to matter. All that young girls of my generation ever got to aspire to was the promise that being rescued and housed by a man would inevitably lead to some vague, cloudy, and suspiciously indistinct notion of happy-ever-after.

This idea never seduced me. Even when I was a little Princess myself, I was always far more Wicked Queen than Snow White. In the “Disney Punch Mash-Up Trailer”, the audio from the Suckerpunch preview clip has been expertly matched with scenes from Disney Princess movies. Suddenly, they’re not as pathetic after all.

Watch the “Disney Punch Mash-Up Trailer” here.