There are no words for just how brilliant this video is. Sidonia and Nina from The English Mansion stuff and wrap a sub, then take him for a day out in the middle of London…
Day Off, Day Out
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Category Archives: BLOGGERY: articles of interest from elsewhere………
Fannying Around
The first rule of fanny club is, never talk about fanny club. Except on this occasion. Fannying Around, the marvellous vagina-owners’ monthly gathering, is in today’s Metro (as is Ms Slide if you look carefully at the picture):
“…We are attending the new and fabulously outré Fannying Around – a monthly meeting run by Sarah Berry, erotic writer and editor of Foreplay magazine.
The gatherings, on the last Monday of the month, are a place for women to talk, whisper, giggle or get advice on their ‘secret place’.
Berry has one rule: what gets said in Fannying Around stays in Fannying Around. No question is too stupid and no experience too outrageous. I was touched by the accepting vibe of my female counterparts – all as curious and open-minded about exploring their sexual pleasure and sexual health as I am.
‘I started the forum because I had vaginismus into my twenties – a psychological condition which makes penetration painful or impossible,’ says Berry. ‘I was insanely embarrassed about it. It led to me being depressed. I felt like a wimp. I went to see sex therapists and tried everything I could think of to get over it. It wasn’t until I went on to write about sex that I realised there was nothing to be embarrassed about. Talking about what lies beneath is so important. It’s what I always needed.’
Once the icebreaker is out of the way, we hear from Mouse, an erotic performer and dominatrix with jaw-dropping party tricks under her…well…pants. On stage, Mouse has put flowers, drinks and even goldfish up you-know-where. She can squirt water and blow air bubbles too, so she talks to us about lubes, muscle control and overcoming shyness…”
Full article here. Also, if you’ve got a fanny (UK translation only – sorry chaps) and would like to attend or find out more, click here.
Bright
Here’s part of a wonderful Salon.com interview with San Francisco writer and kinkster, Susie Bright, addressing the long–debated socio–political dilemma facing the feminist femsub:
‘…Tracy Clark-Flory: One of my favorite passages in the book is a scene in your women’s studies class in college. A student reveals that she has rape fantasies and the classroom explodes with shouts of, “It’s the patriarchy!”
Susie Bright: It’s fun to laugh about it now. It was so scary at the time.
Tracy Clark-Flory:Right, well, you write that sex education in women’s studies classes was an odd duck. Why is that?
Susie Bright: The template for feminist sex education in the ’70s was “Our Bodies, Our Selves.” It did everybody this massive gift of popularizing clear information about our physiology. When it came to anatomy, the women’s movement was all on the same page. You know, “Here is your clitoris. Here is your vulva. Masturbation is fabulous.” But as soon as you got above the neck and started talking about the erotic mind — where our sexual imagination goes when we’re daydreaming, masturbating or in bed with someone — then people started getting very nervous. The feminist movement had a difficult relationship with everything to do with the shadow side, the psychological world. The term “rape fantasy” is an oxymoron, because of course when you’re actually assaulted there’s nothing fantastical about it. In a fantasy, you control every quiver, every nuance — you’re as scared as you wanna be. The tension, the suspense is completely under your control. That’s the opposite of a non-consensual act of violence…”
Full interview here.
